Yeah it's your flash code. When you publish the swf, make sure you publish the html file too. Open the published html file and copy the code from it & paste it into your feedback page.
Double check your paths - or try using an absolute url and see if that helps. You could also use swfObject instead of embed to keep your page standards compliant & display alternative content (instead of "Plug-in Required" when Flash isn't available.)
thanks for all your help. There was issues with my coding. I recently upgrade to CS3 and there were all types of script that i didn't know of before added.